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Capitol Communicator reports that Richard Coad, MDB Communications, says Mr. Rogers offered insights into life they we can all benefit from.

What We Can Learn From Mr. Rogers

by | Feb 1, 2021

Mr. Rogers helped children of all ages understand that feelings – all kinds of feelings – are natural and normal. Fred Rogers encouraged us to talk about our feelings so we could manage them, because “whatever is mentionable can be more manageable.”  Mr. Rogers also gave us words of wisdom to live by, saying: “There are three ways to ultimate success: The first way is to be kind. The second way is to be kind. The third way is to be kind.”

According to Richard Coad. Chief Creative Officer, MDB Communications, Mr. Rogers offered insights into many other areas, including:

1. On Strength

Most of us, I believe, admire strength. It’s something we tend to respect in others, desire for ourselves, and wish for our children. Sometimes, though, I wonder if we confuse strength and other words – like aggression and even violence. Real strength is neither male nor female; but is, quite simply, one of the finest characteristics that any human being can possess.

2. On Important Historical Events

A high school student wrote to ask, ‘What was the greatest event in American history?’ I can’t say. However, I suspect that like so many ‘great’ events, it was something very simple and very quiet with little or no fanfare (such as someone forgiving someone else for a deep hurt that eventually changed the course of history). The really important ‘great’ things are never center stage of life’s dramas; they’re always ‘in the wings.’ That’s why it’s so essential for us to be mindful of the humble and the deep rather than the flashy and the superficial.

3. On Humankind

One of the greatest dignities of humankind is that each successive generation is invested in the welfare of each new generation.

4. On Forgiveness

Forgiveness is a strange thing. It can sometimes be easier to forgive our enemies than our friends. It can be hardest of all to forgive people we love. Like all of life’s important coping skills, the ability to forgive and the capacity to let go of resentments most likely take root very early in our lives.

5. On Sharing Responsibility

We live in a world in which we need to share responsibility. It’s easy to say, ‘It’s not my child, not my community, not my world, not my problem.’ Then there are those who see the need and respond. I consider those people my heroes.

6. On Seeing Scary Things on the News

When I was a boy and I would see scary things in the news, my mother would say to me, ‘Look for the helpers. You will always find people who are helping.’ To this day, especially in times of ‘disaster,’ I remember my mother’s words, and I am always comforted by realizing that there are still so many helpers – so many caring people in this world.

7. On Saying “Yes”

I hope you’re proud of yourself for the times you’ve said ‘yes,’ when all it meant was extra work for you and was seemingly helpful only to somebody else.

8. On Embracing Our Feelings

There’s no ‘should’ or ‘should not’ when it comes to having feelings. They’re part of who we are and their origins are beyond our control. When we can believe that, we may find it easier to make constructive choices about what to do with those feelings.

9. On Facing Sadness & Anger

Confronting our feelings and giving them appropriate expression always takes strength, not weakness. It takes strength to acknowledge our anger, and sometimes more strength yet to curb the aggressive urges anger may bring and to channel them into nonviolent outlets. It takes strength to face our sadness and to grieve and to let our grief and our anger flow in tears when they need to. It takes strength to talk about our feelings and to reach out for help and comfort when we need it.

10. On What Makes Us Special

As human beings, our job in life is to help people realize how rare and valuable each one of us really is, that each of us has something that no one else has – or ever will have – something inside that is unique to all time. It’s our job to encourage each other to discover that uniqueness and to provide ways of developing its expression.

11. On Love

Love isn’t a state of perfect caring. It is an active noun like struggle. To love someone is to strive to accept that person exactly the way he or she is, right here and now.

12. On Being True to Yourself

One of the greatest gifts you can give anybody is the gift of your honest self. I also believe that kids can spot a phony a mile away.

 

MDB Communications is a Capitol Communicator sponsor.

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MDB Communications

Sponsor: MDB Communications is a full-service, media-neutral agency that's powered by experienced leaders and innovators. As an independent agency with the drive and determination to help our clients succeed, we're also able to chart our own course for success and make decisions that are always in our clients' best interests. From brand development to media planning, creative execution to public relations, we deliver solid thinking, airtight strategy, messaging that motivates and the metrics to prove it. MDB top executives carry demonstrable credentials shaping strategy, positioning and creative for major brands. Clients such as Sprint, the American Bankers Association, National Geographic, Destination DC, DC Lottery, Fannie Mae, the United States Mint, and the International Spy Museum have discovered that MDB delivers a solid return on their investment.

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